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Ask Men 12w
What would you do if you were dating a girl for like 7-8 months and really liked her and she was perfect in every way but then had a surprise baby (a cryptic pregnancy, was pregnant the whole time without knowing it)?
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Stay with her and support her
Break up but support her as friend
Be mad/upset and break up
Something else?
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Anonymous 12w

wym a "cryptic pregnancy" 😭 theres steps that gotta take place to get to that point

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Anonymous 12w

I’m terrified of cryptic pregnancies oh my god

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Anonymous 11w

The first thing I would have questions about is the math on 7-8 months. If I didn’t notice she’s pregnant, it’s possible she didn’t either, but my mind is going to be immediately asking if maybe she knew the whole time and hid it from me, cause babydaddy didn’t stick around and she needed to rope in a replacement.

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 12w

It’s a real thing. Some girls still get their “periods” (monthly bleeding that is mistaken for a normal period) and no symptoms, and some don’t even get big at all. Actually happened someone I know recently. It’s really scary tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 12w

Cryptic meaning no showing pregnancy is weird. there’s false negative pregnancy tests, sometimes you can’t see the baby in ultrasounds,

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Same 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Especially when it comes to substances, like if someone don’t know that they’re pregnant and they continue to take recreational substances, that’s fucking horrible and I do not wish that realization on anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

I’m not saying she definitely did that, but the circumstances of the child’s conception are something I *need* to be given the honest truth about. Because choosing to stay with her basically means choosing to be the baby’s dad, and that is a *lifelong* commitment that is not to be made lightly or uninformed.

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