Ask Men on Yik Yak | My bf of almost 2 years asked if we want to get married i the next 7-10 years. I love him so much but idk why i get queesy at the idea of us getting married. I date with the intention of marriage but during our time together there hv been a few dealbreak

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My bf of almost 2 years asked if we want to get married i the next 7-10 years. I love him so much but idk why i get queesy at the idea of us getting married. I date with the intention of marriage but during our time together there hv been a few dealbreak

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Anonymous 1w

Well, I wouldn’t take what we say as an official opinion of what your move is on breaking up or if it’s just anxiety but I would say take a step back and really think of how you feel about the relationship and where you want it to go.

Anonymous 1w

You should probably have a longer conversation about it

Anonymous 1w

My question is, is this a sign I shouldn't or is it just anxiety about marriage?

Anonymous 1w

my man just said some shit similar, and it freaked me tf out so im in the same boat honestly lol. if something is a dealbreaker, sit and think to yourself, “does everything good outweigh the bad?” if no, then you have your answer

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amethyst_bacon 1w

Some dealbreakers may not be a big deal in essence but depends what they are and how you truly feel about to them. I personally know I have hard set boundaries so, think of how those set with your limits

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amethyst_bacon 1w

Tysm I appreciate it a lot 🫶. I will definitely be reflecting on all aspects of the relationship to decide if we should move forward w marriage, or breakup

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#2 1w

I'll definitely bring it up to him again

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#3 1w

Good take I appreciate it 🫶🫶

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OP 1w

yea no worries :)