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hypotheticallt how should i a 23f meet mature men my age lol.😭
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Anonymous 8w

RIGHT HERE GIRL! 🙋🏻‍♂️ I’m 23m and I’m literally in the same boat! I go to work, gym, and home. And gym is mostly attended by other men and senior citizens 🫠🫠🫠

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Anonymous 8w

Assuming you’re out of college, you’re going to have a range of friends who have other friends. Might be worth a shot to go through them (ofc the ones you trust. Another way is through working, seems corny but you both work there and if it’s a career job, could also be a good avenue

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Anonymous 8w

Well I’m 22 and I try bars but it don’t work very well😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Also consider going around 2 ages up or down so you’re not limiting yourself too much

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

thank you funny enough… dating through work didn’t work for me😭😭 and i don’t have many friends to be honest, very introverted gal. and okay you’re right 2 up 2 down thank you 🤞🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Being introverted is completely fine! It means that all the crazy party guys won’t try and go for you and that’s honestly a blessing. Work didn’t work out (haha get it) so that’s off the list 😞 Have you tried being on the apps? Its definitely a gamble but one that might be worth taking if you want a partner, just some thoughts :))

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

yeah i’m not built for the party life at all, just not my scene. and the apps? they horrify me id prefer an organic meet but hence the issue of being a home body LOLOL 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

hmmm, if you have hobbies then i’m sure you can meet somebody doing that, just to get your head in the game. like i like climbing so ill often talk to a lot of climbers at the climbing gym just to know people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

real i feel you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

i don’t drink and they kinda gross me out ngl 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Also bars get expensive! Everything costs $10-$15 minimum!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

What in the world are y’all drinking? My tab at the end of the night is like 30 bucks and that’s more than two drinks.😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

any mixed drink is usually $12. What are YOU drinking to get it so cheap? 👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Pbr

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