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Why does it mean if a guy says you’re not in your soft girl era ?
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Anonymous 4d

it means he probably wants you to act more "feminine" and he wants more control/dominance. although it's just a guess, it feels a bit red-flag-y

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Anonymous 4d

I think he’s in his soft girl era and wants a man

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Anonymous 4d

It means that he doesn’t view you as particularly feminine (nurturing, kind, looking to settle down, etc)

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Anonymous 4d

What even is a soft girl era?

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Anonymous 4d

who cares what a man thinks

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Apparently anybody who’s on ask men 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

just means you’re not very feminine or whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Because I didn’t speak at work ?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Because I didn’t talk much yesterday and don’t ask for help?😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

How tf should I know??? I’m just telling you what most guys mean when they use that phrase

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Firstly lose the attitude, no need to get hostile. 😉 I asked a simple question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

You did not have to comment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

idk, i'm just guessing bc im missing context

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

You’ve only written 4 sentences, and yet you already seem like such an insufferable brat ☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

I can’t say what I wanna because I’ll get suspended for 24Hrs 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

…and clearly a coward

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Nah not rlly, I just love yik yak and don’t wanna get banned again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

“Banned again” Why am I not surprised 😭☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Ugh girl go away you’re pretty annoying . 😑😖

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

So you asked a vague, zero context question, and got upset when your answer didn’t line up with the context, and immediately goes passive-aggressive with your comments

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