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For men who struggle to get women's attention: do you believe that putting in effort at the gym to achieve a new body would help? Answer and leave a reason why
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Anonymous 5d

Hot take maybe but I find super muscular guys so attractive. I mean, do what you want for your body king. But gym Bros have such a bad rep as people that I just avoid them. Don’t get me wrong Most of my male friends do work out, and I do too. but it is a very, very small portion of their personality. I’m so scared of the guys who like constantly posting motivation shit and stuff.

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Anonymous 1w

It can but does not equate to it for sure happening. Also, do it for yourself and your own health not for women appeal.

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Anonymous 1w

Ya because women like fit guys

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Anonymous 5d

Even tho working out helps the attraction, I think what’s more important is your morals, humor, knowing how to dress smell good & overall hygiene. Women aren’t as vain when it comes to looks. A girl would rather an average built man that treats her amazingly and have all the things I listed in the first sentence than a man with a hot body and emotional intelligence of a door knob

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Anonymous 1w

No bc as a gym going man (on hiatus because medical school is kicking my ass) you only ever get noticed by other dudes and never women. Not saying I joined the gym for female attention but it’s smth I noticed

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Anonymous 1w

Lowkey maybe but not for that specific reason. It could definitely help your confidence

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Anonymous 4d

I just wanna be able to look in the mirror and love myself

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Anonymous 4d

I wanna be Mr gigachad and have the hot body a girl would want 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

nono, women like healthy guys 😎

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

And fit is healthy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

and healthy is fit

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 5d

You never miss a take. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Fit sure but that doesn't keep a woman around if you personality such. Unless your only looking for shallow people

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

This! If the guy im talking to has nice arm in the moment I will notice but I won't be looking out for it. You can probably ask any girl on a dating app we aren't interested in the gym bathroom flexing mirror selfie. That only works on other men especially if you got hug hulk physique

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Hug hulk physique = male gaze fs

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Dont do it for the girl do it cause you want to 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I mean idrc that much as long as I’m not fat, I guess it would be nice to lift things easier but I don’t have like a burning desire to get better now that I’d say I’m average or stronger strength. At one point I wanted to get stronger cause I only did leg exercises growing up and I wanted to bridge that gap, but I think I closed that gap a couple years ago.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I always told myself I don’t want to have a beer belly like my dad did, as long as I don’t have that.

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