Ask Men on Yik Yak | how can u tell if a guy is only interested in smex or he actually wants to be w u and know u😭 ik guys can mask true intentions but surely there’s a indicator

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Ask Men 5w

how can u tell if a guy is only interested in smex or he actually wants to be w u and know u😭 ik guys can mask true intentions but surely there’s a indicator

Anonymous 5w

Guys who are interested in sex arent trying to wait so honestly make him wait for it

Anonymous 5w

Anonymous 5w

The type of guys that only want sex are most often the same type of guys who constantly ask women out so you will give yourself better odds by making a move on a guy rather than waiting for one to make a move on you. Then the best thing to do is wait a couple months at the very least to have sex. Waiting is by far the best way to weed out the men who only want sex because they will view you as a waste of their time or they will cheat or constantly push for sex. Other than this just avoid getting

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Anonymous 5w

Can’t tell, I have friends who entire goal is just to fuck, and like literally, there’s no way to tell. It’s so gross and impressive to watch at the same time, like they really make it look like they care. I think the real indicator, is whether or not they try and have sex, and you just gotta be good about denying or it or not putting yourself in a situation where they could even try to initiate

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Anonymous 5w

There’s no indicator, but there is a fix. You’re asking the wrong question. Men will always lie (and always convincingly) if you give them a good reason to. So change the equation Stop resenting yourself for having sex and you’ll never feel duped into it again. You’ll have sex when you want it and a relationship when you find the right person, and none of those men will mislead you or even have a reason to

Anonymous

#2 5w

LOL this is funny

Anonymous

#3 5w

nah this isn’t a good indicator there’s loads who’ll wait then straight leave or just use u

Anonymous

#4 5w

Guys from parties or bars or anything like that. It seems really obvious to me but it still shocks me how many women date men from these places and then go ranting about it. 9 times out of 10 the guys there just want sex. It’s best to get guys from class, clubs, library, etc

Anonymous

#5 5w

Of course it ain’t 100% foolproof because nothing is but it helps reduce the odds significantly and increases the odds of them making a mistake such as cheating to get what they want and exposing themselves. The best path is about using a multitude of strategies to reduce the odds of finding a guy like that and waiting is a very effective strategy especially if used for long time

Anonymous

#4 5w

yeah i see what ur saying UGHHHH I HATE TS LIKE WHY CANT I JUST LIVE MY LIFE 😔

Anonymous

#4 5w

it’s really objectively kind of insane that women have to use strategy for ts it’s really ridiculous

Anonymous

#5 5w

Yeah I agree but sadly that is the way the world is. Some of these behaviors could’ve probably been fixed/prevented and others not so much. However if you pay attention and have experience you can kinda tell based on the type of guy what their intentions are

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Anonymous

#3 5w

Nope. This will backfire. Plenty of men will fake a relationship if that’s what it takes to get laid. Others (myself included) will get the ick and completely lose interest in a woman we think is trying to trade sex for a relationship. Both sex and a relationship have to develop naturally and be mutually desired to be any good. It’s not a good idea to barter them or condition them on each other

Anonymous

the_9billion_memes_of_god 5w

yeah this was exactly what i was trying to say