Anonymous #1 7w

How so? What did you look for then vs now?

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Anonymous OP 7w

If she makes me laugh, can keep a convo, hobbies, and the most important for me is she passionate about something

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Anonymous #5 7w

Wdym

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Anonymous OP 7w

I hate using a number scale, but like in high school and beginning of college I would date like 7/10s or higher. At this point, I’m only going for 10s.

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Anonymous #5 7w

What’s your definition of a 7/10 vs 10/10

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Anonymous OP 7w

This is a good question. Does 10/10 mean top 10% of women, or is it more Gaussian distributed ?

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Anonymous #2 7w

It’s more of like I see them and immediately am like “holy SHIT, SHES GORGEOUS” I’d say it applies to somewhere between 15 and 25% of women I’ve met. It was almost once a day when I worked in healthcare.

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Anonymous #5 7w

That makes sense. I find like 50% of women my age that I see attractive but obviously fewer would be 10/10s. I think women underestimate how attracted we are to the average girl

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Anonymous #2 7w

That is straight facts. I’ve noticed a lot of women are much more attractive than they give themselves credit for as well.

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Anonymous #5 7w

Preach brother. I think there’s a counterintuitive phenomena thats going on with men’s attraction: We aren’t willing to date a woman we find unattractive, but we find a lot of women attractive. Women shouldn’t worry about looking like an influencer or model, but just the best version of themselves

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Anonymous #2 7w

I’ve found a common insecurity of women at least on here and within myself is our noses. A lot of us don’t have small button sloped noses and we worry it makes us unattractive or masculine to guys.

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Anonymous #2 7w

2 of my 4 exes literally thought they were hideous. The other two thought they were average.

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Anonymous #5 7w

Yea my ex also said she thought she was average. I honestly don’t think having a big nose matters if you’ve maxed out everything else. I bet you would date a man who had one physical flaw but was perfect in every other way

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Anonymous #2 7w

I mean I’m also a dude, but I completely agree.

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Anonymous #5 7w

Plus, big noses aren’t a turn off for me at all.

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Anonymous #5 7w

Yea I meant the nose thing for OP, but I can only choose one number to reply to

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Anonymous #5 7w

Would it automatically make a girl not capable of being a 10

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Anonymous OP 7w

Not at all.

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Anonymous OP 7w

Not at all. Your nose interacts with all the other features of your face to create your look, you can’t say a priori it will make someone look worse

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