Anonymous #1 8w

And how they kinda manipulate you into a sense of security through doing everything right and going above and beyond.

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Anonymous #1 8w

I get that feel like a lot of people kinda use it as cope. As in this guy never had true intentions

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Anonymous OP 8w

Thats one way to look at it. People suck tbh. I hope that you are able to find someone who truly sees you as their star

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Anonymous freestyle 8w

I'm not saying it's not real I just don't believe a lot of people here

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Anonymous #3 8w

Thought I’d throw that out there, idk if that happened here or not

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Anonymous #3 8w

Nope lovebombing can happen even if they don’t say I love u

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Anonymous #5 8w

How is it lovebombing if they don’t say they love u

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Anonymous #5 8w

Really? I’m not even sure what that could sound like. To me, making a point of not using the L word is basically the clearest possible indicator they’re managing your expectations

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Anonymous #4 8w

Idk it's just such a way to possibly call a decent guy a manipulative person and the reason it didn't work out instead of ever thinking they possibly could be part of the problem, but idk about one phrase

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Anonymous #3 8w

Making promises and comments to the person as if uve known them for months/years being like ur my dream person let’s plan this trip come meet my family yada yada like rlly intense stuff early on to get them hooked. Saying I love u way too early is also part of it but the “love”bombing is just the name but doesn’t mean they have explicitly say they love u if that makes sende

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