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how tf do i find a boyfriend
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Anonymous 6d

Don’t look in the wrong places and change yourself for a man there. Go do all of the things you enjoy doing that you want to be a big part of your relationship, and you’ll find a man there perfect for you.

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Anonymous 6d

Go to places you enjoy, socialize, and look good! like if you’re into reading check out a barnes and noble or go out with friends and see what the nightlife has to offer?

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Anonymous 1w

What kind of

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Anonymous 6d

I think it’s totally cool and valid you want someone with ambition, but also unrealistic to expect a stranger to ask you out in public

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Anonymous 6d

Dating apps!

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Anonymous 6d

Be thin pretty and nice, if you have a guy you really want make him food

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

wdym what kind of?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Didn’t mean to add the of, but what kinda guy you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

idk maybe somebody with a job or who’s in school. somebody with actual ambitions and isn’t mooching off his daddy. i’m not posting this to have men messaging me on yikyak i just don’t know how to go about finding someone irl. i get tons of messages on dating apps but i’ve never even been asked out before. i’ve never been in a real relationship. to my knowledge im not hideous and im definitely not lacking in the personality department so idk what else to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

girl i felt this in my soul. i also agree 100% i wish i had something to tell u from my own experiences but from what my friends say, going out is a huge factor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Mooching off his daddy…. Interesting, could you give an example?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

was talking to this guy. 23 years old. wasn’t in school (trade school or university i don’t discriminate i prefer blue collar), didn’t have a job, had no ambitions goals life plans nothing. he lived at home obviously because it’s not like he could provide for himself. idek what he did on a daily basis. but the thing is that i have a job and i am a semester away from graduating with my bsn and am completely self sufficient. i don’t feel like it’s radical what i’m asking for

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Also spark up convos with people! Dont just try to telepathically have people talk to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

(Most women do not do this)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6d

Unless your just a hoe who wants to fuck please don’t do this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

It’s not, that makes sense.

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