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Ask Men 6w
I’m the girl who asked about shooting her shot a couple days ago. Genuine question, why did my post and this post evoke such a sarcastic response?
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Ask Men 7w
Guys would u make fun of a girl for coming up to you and asking you out or for your Snapchat and if a girl asked for your snap would u know she’s interested or does she have to be very obvious
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Anonymous 6w

We’re pretty sarcastic in general on here and to be honest the answer is pretty obvious to your post. Men rarely get compliments, men rarely get asked out, and you’re pretty much doing both of those simultaneously. You’re literally going to make the dudes year even if he isn’t interested

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Anonymous 6w

a lot of guys here act like the answers to our questions or obvious (girl here). they think it’s just default that a guy would respond well because they don’t understand some of our experienced being rejected. i still remember growing up being bullied by boys & being teased for having a crush so i feel your anxieties. don’t let them make u feel dumb 🫶

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Anonymous 6w

Fr

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Anonymous 6w

They were so bothered girl I was shocked

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Anonymous 6w

I think a lot of people forget that sarcasm doesn’t always come across clearly online, and that what’s obvious to them may not be obvious to others.

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Anonymous 6w

Boys are mean!

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Anonymous 6w

There was like one sarcastic response and it was obvious that it was sarcasm, what are you on

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Anonymous 6w

Bc it’s obvious that guys would like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Other people were rude/dry so I can def see how it seemed like more

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

On my original post, I didn’t know the answer. That’s why I asked 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Let’s put it to the test. How would you react if a guy walked up to you and said “hey I think you’re really cute and I wanted to know if I could get your number and go on a date sometime”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

In that case ig everyone should lie about their answers

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

And on top of that imagine never receiving a compliment before in your life and being ignored from men

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

For me personally, that’s a lot to ask all at once, but I would be flattered whether or not I found him attractive. From my personal experience, I am more hesitant to approach men because of how they act when they are not attracted to the girl. Not saying that’s always the case, I just wanted to hear a variety of honest male opinions on the matter. I’m not the one who asked about snap but my post had the same energy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I don’t have to imagine OP 🙁

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

That’s not the point. You can be honest without being rude. I posted and asked my question because I was genuinely curious and the way people responded made me and others feel like Ask Men is for putting people down and not a safe forum to actually ask questions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well the bottom line is that even if they’re no attracted to you the majority of guys would be beyond flattered and happy that you did

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

To you it is. We wouldn’t have asked if it was that obvious to us

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No one answered rude in the post you quoted except maybe 6

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

If you’re referring to another you should’ve found and quoted it instead of

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I was speaking about both the post I quoted and my post from a couple days ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

To most ppl it would be obvious who doesn’t like it if a girl is into clearly them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

We have no idea what that post is this is an anonymous platform

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

It’s the one where I talked about women on tiktok discouraging shooting your shot and multiple ppl reposted sarcastically

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

That's so true

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I think in that post they were mocking TikTok as an information source more than anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

Thank you girl. You get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I asked a question today just wanting to hear people's thoughts and they jumped down my throat like I'm some man hating misandrist all because I don't pick up men in public 🧍‍♀️ like sometimes it's insane here and I think they lose the plot and take their anger and issues out on people who genuinely are curious and want to be productive

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Which is crazy bc I didn’t actively seek out that info on TikTok 😭😭😭

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