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is it a 🚩 if he’s using terms like ā€œhigh value menā€?
65 upvotes, 52 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "is it a 🚩 if he’s using terms like ā€œhigh value menā€?"
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Anonymous 10w

Run, that sounds like Andrew Tate shit

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Anonymous 10w

Yes 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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Anonymous 10w

when people say those words i usually think of red pill people but i definitely think when it comes to principles and morals i definitely think it adds value to a person, regardless of whether you're a man or woman. but tbh the high/low value terms are icky to me

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Anonymous 10w

It’s like a yellow flag cuz theres men who have a higher moral value but they way he sounds run run as fast as you can

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Anonymous 10w

Yes it is a red flag

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Anonymous 10w

Yeah that’s someone else’s rhetoric he’s regurgitating. Red flag and a certified ā€œlow value manā€ as he would put it

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Anonymous 10w

You can just say ā€œupstanding citizenā€ or ā€œemotionally matureā€ or ā€œchivalrousā€ or something. ā€œHigh valueā€ is just a way to say ā€œbetterā€ without actually describing what he thinks he’s better *at*. Big red flag, especially if he originally used it to describe himself.

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Anonymous 10w

yes

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Anonymous 10w

Yes, that’s Andrew Tate

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Anonymous 10w

GREEN FLAG GREEN FLAG (I’m actually colorblind)

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Anonymous 10w

girl run

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Anonymous 10w

LOL FUCKING MAN MAN CHILDREN IN THE COMMENTS

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Anonymous 10w

I’d find it alarming that they’ve picked up terminology like that, but I don’t think the idea they’re expressing (that some men act with more desirable moral character than others) is in any way problematic. I think it depends where they picked up the term from. Maybe someone in their social circle uses it. I’d ask where they picked that phrase up before rushing to judgement.

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Anonymous 10w

I mean in what context did he mention it

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Anonymous 10w

it’s giving major red flag vibes

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Anonymous 10w

Just dig deeper what morals?

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Anonymous 10w

The way he’s using it that’s def a red flag

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Anonymous 10w

Nothing burger tbh

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Anonymous 10w

YES.

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Anonymous 10w

Honestly this is the first time ive seen the phrase high value man used with an acceptable meaning. Morals/conscience is the first thing to consider not only in ā€œa manā€ but in everyone. If we as a society gauged how worthy people were off their moral compass we wouldnt be failing nearly as bad as we are now. Not just politically, i mean men/women, black/white, rich/poor, and everything in between.

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Anonymous 10w

People have value yes, but it’s a spectrum, to divide folks into have and have not’s is stupid and short sighted, to say nothing of their ability to work on themselves.

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Anonymous 10w

Yes The same way a woman calling herself a boss babe, queen, goddess is also a 🚩

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Nobody who used these terms has morals lol it’s always assholes who cope by looking down on others and claiming they’re ā€œhigh valueā€

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

Go away. This is ask men

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

I say that as a straight man Also women are allowed to comment here within reason bruh

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 10w

Half of the comments here are clearly women or gay men so idk what we doing here lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

There’s a screenshot of the context

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Can you read

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

do gay men not count as men

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

stfu

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Gay men…are still menšŸ’€

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 10w

Man man children?

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 10w

You knew what I meant man child

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 10w

At least be original with insults if you're going to throw them around

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 10w

exactly!! those are much more eloquent ways of describing a man of good morals imo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

I don’t really see this one, I love when a women calls herself a goddess/queen bc she’s typically saying she feels beautiful and powerful at that time, she’s not being a misogynistic asshole trying to act tough or like she’s ā€œbetterā€ than anyone else. But it may just be the context I hear it from (alt/goth girls/wlw people)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Female narcissism has become so normalized that you see it as simply being strong and beautiful…

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 10w

How #17 looks irl

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

Ummmm no….. I know how shitty females are being treated by the world and if a women thinks she looks like a queen when she’s decked out in makeup, who the hell am I to tell her she’s not??? Also it’s typically not said in a bad way with me, more so a women twirling in a flowing black dress asking me if she looks like a goddess. So I think we are seeing two diff types of women in our lives

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

me when i don't know what narcissisism is

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

About as bad. He stole it from the organized-misandry Reddit page that’s openly intended as ā€œredpill for womenā€ (i.e. how they share tips on dating as sociopaths). Idk what kind of mind-game he thinks he’s playing by regurgitating it as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

ā€œI deserve thisā€ ā€œManifest what you deserveā€

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

Dawg idek what your point is, but it's clear that it's stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Can’t call me a liar tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

I can tho, and I can call you someone who has a six finger forehead, and prolly pays for yikyak plus

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Sure you can, still not a liar

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

If thats the lie you tell yourself to make yourself feel better, good for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Like the lies you have to make up to describe me to make YOU feel better?

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

Hey now, if you take out your reading glasses you will see prolly, which is short for probably. Reading comprehension really didn't stick with you in school?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

ā€œReading comprehensionā€ Then you imagine me as a 6finger forehead and yikyak premium buyer? Yeah something like you can’t say anything about reading comprehension

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 10w

Its clear that you never really played on the playground if you can't read between the lines kiddo

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