You can just say āupstanding citizenā or āemotionally matureā or āchivalrousā or something. āHigh valueā is just a way to say ābetterā without actually describing what he thinks heās better *at*. Big red flag, especially if he originally used it to describe himself.
Iād find it alarming that theyāve picked up terminology like that, but I donāt think the idea theyāre expressing (that some men act with more desirable moral character than others) is in any way problematic. I think it depends where they picked up the term from. Maybe someone in their social circle uses it. Iād ask where they picked that phrase up before rushing to judgement.
Honestly this is the first time ive seen the phrase high value man used with an acceptable meaning. Morals/conscience is the first thing to consider not only in āa manā but in everyone. If we as a society gauged how worthy people were off their moral compass we wouldnt be failing nearly as bad as we are now. Not just politically, i mean men/women, black/white, rich/poor, and everything in between.
I donāt really see this one, I love when a women calls herself a goddess/queen bc sheās typically saying she feels beautiful and powerful at that time, sheās not being a misogynistic asshole trying to act tough or like sheās ābetterā than anyone else. But it may just be the context I hear it from (alt/goth girls/wlw people)
Ummmm noā¦.. I know how shitty females are being treated by the world and if a women thinks she looks like a queen when sheās decked out in makeup, who the hell am I to tell her sheās not??? Also itās typically not said in a bad way with me, more so a women twirling in a flowing black dress asking me if she looks like a goddess. So I think we are seeing two diff types of women in our lives