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Is it true that most men have thought about having sex with their female friends even if they don’t even like her like that?
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Anonymous 9w

Like in general do you think that thought crosses their mind even briefly bc that’s what I’m hearing

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Anonymous 9w

Not my platonic friends

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Anonymous 9w

I mean. It depends of course but yeah. But more in the curious “how would that work?” Then a crush way. Like obviously there’s biology. Like men are attracted to physical characteristics as well as personality. So while on a physical level we may have some slight attraction in the beginning, personality usually trumps that. Because just because you’re good at being friends doesn’t mean a relationship would work.

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Anonymous 9w

No not usuallt

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Anonymous 9w

Nah only if I do think of them like that

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Anonymous 9w

it definitely crosses my mind (rarely) but i don't fantasize about it

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Anonymous 9w

no ma'am

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Anonymous 9w

Hell no

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Anonymous 9w

I feel like it’s crossed my mind what it would be like to have sex with my best guy friend it’s natural for it to cross your mind and I wouldn’t be surprised if he has thought about it too. Either way it still feels fully platonic because we share our love lives with each other and hang out with no sexual tension

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Anonymous 9w

That’s a hard yes. Yes all of them, it was early on, they may still do and/or are activity pursuing it, it might be the reason theyre your friend to begin with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Wait this is so interesting why do the do this lmao and like are the thought just like quick in passing thoughts like a simple what would they be like in bed or are they thinking of like scenarios in depth

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Do you think most guys are only friends with girls they find attractive to some degree

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

No. I mean. At least not me. Some of my closest female friends I have no attraction physically to what so ever. Remember as much as media says that “straight man talk to woman if man peepee get hard when look” we ain’t that simple. Well…. Most of us aren’t that simple. But we have nuance like anyone else. Like I’m sure women can find a man EXTREMELY physically attractive but his personality makes him gross. Same with dudes. As well as the less extreme “she’s cute but she’s fucking not for me”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Just the nature of men basically but it’s def not 100% of the time. It’s all of the above, Id say there’s a range of thoughts depending on the person, some romance elements could be mixed in, could just be a curious monkey brain moment, could be pure lust, could also be like a long term fantasy obsession on some weirdo type sht

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

This is good to know

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 9w

Thank god

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Who told you that in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Almost every guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You gotta meet new guys or something

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