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What are good lines/ convo starters to say to you guys at bars?? You guys are normally very vague when answering questions on here so plz say more than just “litterally anything” lmao. I wanna start approaching guys but have NO idea what to say
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Anonymous 1w

You're at a bar, so something contextual could make a lot of sense. Asking what he's drinking could work, its been a good question for me in the past. Also complements like #1 said

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Anonymous 1w

Complement something or ask him about himself

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Anonymous 1w

lol we’re “vague” because that’s the correct answer. Seriously, what’s wrong with literally anything? Have you tried it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

“ Hello sir, you smell very nice”is a time-tested classic

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 1w

Oop- i’m getting downvoted, guess this was a bad question to ask but it was genuine from someone who’s socially awkward and who’s never the one to approach the guy☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I think like “where did u get that (peircing, belt, shirt, etc)” is a good starter! Personally as a man I say like ur top is so pretty! And if they continue the convo they do if not (they usually don’t) at least I spread joy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

On real shit, I’ll tell you what worked on me: youve gotta get him dancing with you. Bars are loud places and it can be very difficult to hold conversations. Ideally you need to get maximal physical proximity to a guy so that he can hear you and you can break the touch barrier. Ask him to dance

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 1w

Probably not the most intriguing strat for someone socially awk LOL but it would work if they are interested

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

High variance strat

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