Get a shield and armor. Maybe a sword although they usually don’t go on the offensive. Then, and this is the really scary part, talk to them. Fr though, they are humans and people to. Just like get off yikyak and start talking to them without looking for smth. Once u got close homegirls and u realize they are human, grosser than guys half the time, and are more than just a possible partner, it will get way easier