It’s beyond me, I’d take the test just to ensure I’m not fucking up someone else’s life

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Yeah idek. I’d personally get tested and ask that the other person does I ain’t taking my chances

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He might know he has an sti and so doesn’t want to share results or just was too lazy to go get one bc he just doesn’t care about your well-being at all. A lot of people who sleep around don’t care about spreading anything which is really frustrating

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If he can’t even do you this bare minimum level of courtesy, that’s a strong sign that he’s not relationship material. Especially if he’s acting like he’s some big deal who’s worth risking it for just to sleep with him or acting like you’re being rude for not wanting to sleep w him without a test. He’s definitely an asshole then. I say steer clear of his nasty ass.

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you can even go to your local health dept and get tested for free usually, so i don’t see the issue

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they tend to either be lazy or think that if you’ve taken a test that means you sleep around

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They’re afraid of what the result will be lol

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Stick to your guns on this Refusing to get tested or making it a huge issue is a GIANT FLAG for all kinds of shit, not just health

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