Anonymous #2 3w

No your just getting serious

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Anonymous stanczyk 3w

this question is phrased strangely. i assume everyone is dating around until they decide to be exclusive with someone, i would prefer we have that discussion. however definitely not during the first date. like at that point you're still strangers basically

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Anonymous #3 3w

that's not what this post is abt?? you aren't a couple after one date i fear like that requires a conversation

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Anonymous #2 3w

it's weird if you haven't been on any dates for sure, but yeah depending on how many dates you're in if it's less than three i definitely think it's weird. there is nothing wrong with liking one person more than another but i wouldn't stop talking to other girls until you become exclusive with someone.

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Anonymous OP 3w

You post never implied directly that you were dating strangers. All of my experience comes from women i already had some degree of familiarity with so when we did go on a date exclusivity felt mutually implied (not just according to me either).

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Anonymous OP 3w

I was looking at your question through said lens as i was a bit confused how exclusivity could have been seen as weird or undesirable, but i suppose it make a bit more sense now.

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Anonymous stanczyk 3w

i mean even if there is a degree of familiarity, i still would prefer a discussion regarding exclusivity and labels. i also think most people go on dates with strangers/people they don't know well, hence why you are on a date with them. like i can't think of a specific instance where you would know someone well enough that you would automatically be exclusive by the first date.

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Anonymous OP 3w

like even if you were close friends prior to the date i feel like one date isn't enough to feel how you'd work as a couple

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