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do most guys actually not like rough sex?? that’s unfortunately the only way i like it. lmk your thoughts??
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What's something that would instantly turn you/guys off during smexy times??
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Anonymous 5w

Idk we don’t rly talk to eachother abt that stuff, I personally am not a fan

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Anonymous 5w

Personally I hate rough sex, and I’d never do it. If a woman asks me to choke her I’m outta there so fast

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Anonymous 5w

I enjoy more “sensual/loving” sex, also if I were to go really rough with a girl I’d be worried about actually hurting her. There’s been multiple instances in my life where I didn’t know my own strength so it’s safer for me to just not get myself into those positions

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Anonymous 5w

That would probably be a dealbreaker for me

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Anonymous 5w

Violent sex kinks/acts such as slapping and choking are becoming FRIGHTENINGLY more common since porn has become so accessible. Rough agressive sex is not normal, and if you can’t get turned on by “vanilla/softcore” sex, you have a problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

is it just too much for you? you don’t have to answer if it’s too personal

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Idk about others i don’t talk to guys about sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

why’s it a dealbreaker, i’m curious?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It would turn me off and I probably wouldn’t want to have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

sorry im just curious but what do you classify as rough ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Choking, hitting, degrading

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Is this the same as you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I just don’t like abusing ppl?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

to an extent yes but i personally usually don’t go that rough. maybe on occasion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

that’s fair. kind guy, but it’s only okay when it’s consensual anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

What would you count as “rough”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah just rly not into that personally, even consensually

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Damn, my idea of rough sex is just going harder or faster, not abuse. Didn’t know ppl were freaky like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Oh ok yeah I do that towards the end, when I heard rough I thought it was what 2 said (choking, hitting, degrading)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

that’s actually so fair. it can be scary sometimes from a girls perspective too but that’s why i do with someone i trust. and there’s nothing wrong with sensual 🤏

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

i didn’t say i couldn’t get turned on from vanilla it’s just a lot of guys can’t do it right in my experience. vanilla can be amazing with the right person. and also i agree, the violent acts can be frightening which is why it’s good to have a healthy balance and relationship. also i don’t watch porn.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

for me personally, soft aggression, fast/hard. i’ve only done the slapping stuff with one person and i plan to keep it that way bc ig requires a lot of trust

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

yeah that’s fair, i just didn’t think that was such an unpopular opinion bc every guy ive hookup with is into it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

yeah that’s my idea of it too. sometimes the full aggression is too much

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