unfortunately as a shy guy i've learned that you need to put yourself out there at least a little bit if you want to find someone. guys like girls like you, but you just dont see them get with guys often because there's not many opportunities when they dont go out much or anything

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Probably cause they don’t want to bother you

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The problem is if you don’t show interest in them they may not feel comfortable going after you

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This is so pick me coded🤣

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You gotta be at least a little flirty to reel them in

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Because sex sells. If you don’t want to attract those types of guys, you’re doing the right thing. Find someone in a community that you enjoy, there is no need to rush relationships. Spend time looking for people who are emotionally mature rather than just trying to get off.

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Girl, you only have to find the right guy ONCE. Being (a bit) shy, modest, and polite are great attributes. There’s a French film “Amélie” where the main character has these attributes but is incredibly influential utilizing those traits to get things done. Highly recommend it.

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Yeah, shy girls tend to attract shy guys. So you see plenty more of the expressive girls, attracting the expressive guys. Instead of the guy whose own shadow scares him, let alone talking to a pretty girl.

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Partially scared of rejection, partially not drawn to someone without a (visible) personality.

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Fuck you

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