God what a warzone. Also like for both sides theres crazy amounts of hate. Like why are we acting like this. Regardless which side your on; the media wants to see you hate your neighbor, the government pins different groups of people as the bad guys radicalising those people, our government favors rich ologarchies more then its people regardless of whos in charge. Like folks the main problem is not the guy who wears the red hat or the other guy who wears a blue one its the people in power
I guess it’s sad that you take it as a make or break statistic that moves like a pendulum by your own experience. That’s giving yourself grace but not others. Also Christian’s are quite literally called to be Christ-like. So yes making decisions and thinking about others the way God does is quite literally the whole point after salvation. Idk seems like you know of god but you don’t know God. Id probably think differently if you didn’t say it’s based off your own body count.
If you are under the age of 25 you can’t expect a man to do these things they are still young men and getting their way in life a conservative man after the age of 25 should and will do these things. I’ve been conservative since the age of 16 you can’t just expect young men to grasp these things they need to grow and learn.
I wouldn’t tolerate my gf embarrassing me online or around my friends, going out with revealing clothing on, talking to other men, talking shit about me ( a lot of women talk shit about their husbands behind their back), talking about private matters with her friends, things like that.
your wording is a bit alarming, is it intentional? like embarrassing can be accidental or kind of anything and by tolerate do you mean break up or yell at? talking to other men in general? like no male friends? and do you not think venting is normal/helathy? i have lots of questions
That’s a very grey moral line. What’s “high” 3? 7? 15? Sorry but I except adults to act like adults when they become them. There’s no magic 25 wow now I understand empathy/ how I impact others. That lesson is learned way earlier. Yes we make mistakes yes we all still grow and learn. But if you are a man that grew up in the church or in conservative group; you don’t get to just wake up years past adolescence. A good man always respected others, speaks gently, & listens. It’s not a switch
What’s high is what ever a person sets it at you don’t need multiple people to agree that’s why you have standards your standards shouldn’t conform to the majority or what people say it is it’s what ever you feel comfortable with. You’re acting as if young women aren’t horrible in their younger years as well, we where talking about young men so that’s what I talked about
Your past comments didn’t really rely that. You said “as long as she doesn’t have a high body count” then continued with your “one count” almost verifying it should be low. So you’re replying to this thread as if it’s personal to you; whereas this thread started very general looking for discussion on the principles not your own goals. Your one experience does not qualify for the full context. Telling everyone how it should be based off you when it’s “what ever the person sets” seems hypocritical
My past comments where addressing multiple things at once that’s why I said as long as she doesn’t have a high body count I have a body count of 1 so I would not want my gf to have a higher body count than me. You can talk about 2 things in one comment part of my comment can address the principle and another can address me personally. (As long as she doesn’t have a high body count= principle, I have a body count of 1 = personal) I also never told everyone to conform to my stands idk where you-
So worth IS based off of the idea of purity in your own head. Which is only skewed when your own level changes which puts you at the sole center of it. You say you’re a Christian? Have you read the book of Hosea? Perfect depiction of Christ. You should read it; sounds like you have a lesson to learn. You missed church.
I don’t think you understand. A high body count does not equate to promiscuity. And you hold the value of a relationship based off that status. That book actually break every assumption common evangelical conservative mindset has on women. He saw her and saw her value not her sexual endeavors. No one else thought she was more than a slut but he saw her as God did. So ya you did miss a lesson.
I don’t have to accept anyone for anything even if you take being Christ like into account I don’t have to date people with high body counts no matter what you say the scripture literally tells us to find a wife we want and would be happy with I wouldn’t be happy with a gf that’s been with a lot of men.
How is not wanting a partner with tons of bodies or promiscuous being bad?I think it’s completely reasonable to not wanna be with someone who sleeps around, if you also don’t. And maybe this generation could use a lil more anti sex. All I hear women talking ab is hookups n im sure it’s the same with men. Some people want more depth
A lot of men apparently is based on your count w/ women there lies the issue. You keep throwing it on I don’t want a “this”. Sure! We all have preferences but your value is only dependent on your own purity and I don’t understand how you don’t see that’s deplorable. Your ex would be the issue if she was with one other man but apparently not if you were with one other woman. Hiding behind an idea of preference only works if it’s an actual preference. That shouldn’t change based off current action
I’m dating the woman why do you care what I classify a lot of men as? That’s for me to decide I’m not telling anyone else they got to follow my lead. I don’t want or feel the need to be with another woman and if I do get with another woman it’s up to my ex to decide if she wants to date me or not.
It’s funny you invited your own self to the conversation “asking men” in which people ask men. Did you forget? Also you said “probably get back together” so doesn’t really sound all that serious or official. But you come into this thread with opinions but when you get pressured it’s oh no that’s my own thing and it’s private. Like come on bro where’s the back bone. I see hardly an explanation on again a thread YOU commented on any of your options. Just “what I want yo why do you care”. Fr Lame.
Also to your girl who was in the shower while he was arguing with people online. There is a man out there who would not drop you solely based off that. He will see you in the eyes of Christ and love you unconditionally based off the value of you being you. I bet you have a hobby, I bet you have a favorite song, I bet you have a secret, I bet you miss someone. You are human you can make mistakes you can be messy and wrong. But God will always & I mean always know you love you and never give up u.
What you mean backbone, you can be capital save a hoe that doesn’t mean we all have to be. I don’t have a duty to accept anything from anyone I can set my own standards and want what I want to want, and if you’re a woman no God fearing respectable man is going to take a woman that’s been with multiple guys seriously Nether is it their duty too.
If this is true then why are we seeing an uptake in violent crime from the left side. If the left is trully as accepting as they say they are then why is a man whos whole goal is open conversations and advocating free speech dead? Regardless the politicians on both sides are corrupt. Neither side is better then the other. The extremes are what the media shows. There are millions of regular people who exist who voted red cause the blue candatite was frankly not a good choice
That’s not true in the slightest. Overwhelming violence is coming from the right wing; the guy who shot Charlie Kirk was an incel fascist. And Charlie Kirk was a stochastic terrorist- he was not interested in free speech. He had a watchlist for professors who were too left leaning, for example. Also, the republicans are certainly worse than the democrats, but that isn’t to say democrat aren’t corrupt and that media isn’t trying to sway you one way or another.
These are the comments from Tyler the incel fascist in question. Not only was Tyler not a incel fascist he was one of you a left wingers with a trans girlfriend, no matter how much you and your leftiod friends say he was a incel or a fascist it’s wrong the state departments quotes and research on him have shown he is left wing and deeply in the rabbit hole of leftism.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Professor_Watchlist Feel free to follow any citation on there. And please reference the economy, the literal concentration camps, the murders in Iran and Venezuela (which would be acts of war), and the decline of the American empire as reasons why the Republicans are worse than democrats. I’m not gonna defend democrats here, but let’s not play pretend.