
No, by definition, to be harassment, it has to be unwelcome. Since most guys would welcome it, the situation you’re describing is not. Yes, I realize it’s not ok when guys do it to women. But the bad “how would you like it” analogy you made to the hypothetical role reversal was a terrible way to make that point, since most men would love it, but understand it’s only natural that women want to be treated differently.
Women and men are humans, and no human alive would ever like to be touched especially when its out of the blue/unconsenual so i dont buy men saying they would like it. Obviously the guys saying they would love it have romanticized this since they have a huge lack of intimacy in their life
It’s so weird that ur (incorrectly) overruling OTHER people on what we’re ok with. Yeah, compared to women, nearly every guy on has a huge lack of intimacy (or rather a scarcity that makes us appreciate it). Can’t take it for granted the way women can. But we can put ourselves in women’s shoes and UNDERSTAND that lustful attention would get annoying if you had too much of it & never experienced that scarcity. But we aren’t in that position. Why is it so difficult for you to believe/understand t
hat men would respond differently to certain things than women bc our relationship to lust is inverted. Of COURSE we would respond differently lol. Like how a drowning person isn’t thirsty and vice versa. Men and women are both humans, but not all humans are women. Hence, your experiences as a woman aren’t a sound basis to make assumptions about every human alive, because some humans are men.