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How long does it take to kiss a girl or hold hands after first date? Should I proceed first???

Anonymous 2w

If I were dating I would wait for very clear signs she wants to do those things. Wouldn’t do anything until I saw those signs or she initiates

Anonymous 2w

Usually the first date is fine for many guys, just stick your hand out and ask, and is the mood is romantic enough make a kissy face to initiate either one. But some guys (like me) are more slow so don’t assume we don’t like you if we refuse your offer.

Anonymous

#1 2w

How should i signal? I am a girl

Anonymous

OP 2w

Honestly just initiate it. I am 99% sure if they are dating you that they would like it. Girls wouldn’t have to worry about if it’s “too soon” like guys do

Anonymous

#1 2w

Like just hold their hands? Or ask them directly? Every first dates, guys were super cautious on every thing ...:)

Anonymous

OP 2w

Of course they are. One wrong move and it can be over. Just do it, especially if they’re inexperienced it will save them stress and show you really like them

Anonymous

#1 2w

Sorry for so many questions! But why would some ppl not text me first after first date but gave their numbers? I am really new to this and just anxious😭 Also, wont there be a chance they will dislike it if I initiate any first acts?

Anonymous

OP 2w

Can’t really answer the first question, don’t know what they’re thinking individually. As for the second question, I promise you only girls would be turned off by premature touching. That’s why you should do it, you don’t have to worry about turning him off, but he has to worry about turning you off

Anonymous

#1 2w

At worst, they’ll merely feel nothing, but even that is unlikely