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are there any guys who actually want a relationship and not just hookup
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Anonymous 15h

They’re at church 😁. Me and all my friends are all waiting for marriage and trying to find our future wife.

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah relationship with flirting would be nice

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Anonymous 1d

I’d like one someday

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Anonymous 1d

Guys that say yes , only want to use you for your body remember that

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Anonymous 20h

I’m sure there are plenty. Maybe more that want to hookup before a relationship though. We’ve normalized having sex to find out your compatibility with someone.

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Anonymous 1d

Nope. Not a single one

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Anonymous 1d

Hell no

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Anonymous 22h

Well I’m waiting till marriage, like most people globally, so yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Agreed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Disagree

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Anonymous replying to -> benjamin.rush 20h

you think most ppl globally wait for marriage? 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17h

No longer as vast a majority, but yes, they do. I’ve traveled to 43 countries, and the “western” conceptions of dating where one has sex outside marriage are not common.

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Anonymous replying to -> benjamin.rush 17h

i’m aware the west is the most sexually open region, but i still wouldn’t say it’s even close to majority of the rest of the world that actually waits for marriage. i mean is there any data to support your claim or are you just going off your experience of the culture ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17h

There’s no actionable data to support either claim afaik, ergo anecdotal evidence holds weight. I’ve been to several cities in China and India, which have the world’s largest populations and from talking to people our age and older it doesn’t really seem common at all. This was the common pattern I’d see in Southeast Asia, Central Asia, the Middle East, and Africa. South America and Europe were more like us here

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Anonymous replying to -> benjamin.rush 17h

yeah no offense but i’m not gonna take your personal anecdotal evidence of you just talking to people as fact lmao. doesn’t hold much weight at. that's not enough to infer what 8 billion people do globally. large international surveys on age at first sex and age at marriage are much stronger evidence than ur travel impressions, and those surveys show substantial premarital sex in many populations

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

None taken, you’re free to think as you’d like. I’d just caution that there aren’t any global surveys gauging rates of pre marital sex, so you're basically just going off a feeling over someone that's at least actually traveled and spoken to people about their cultures widely. You could also travel yourself and check stuff out, but as far as my own experience tells me we are in the minority globally on this

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