Ask Men on Yik Yak | I’ve found out on my own that my bf has hidden or omitted info about things that he’s done or has happened to avoid telling me and making me upset. And how can I get the idea through to him that breaks my trust MORE and makes things worse.

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Ask Men 13w

I’ve found out on my own that my bf has hidden or omitted info about things that he’s done or has happened to avoid telling me and making me upset. And how can I get the idea through to him that breaks my trust MORE and makes things worse.

Anonymous 13w

Things he’s done as in, he’s a bad person who does bad things? Or as in like, he’s dated women or had relationship drama before that he doesn’t flaunt because it’s rude and you’re sensitive to stuff like that? Have you given any consideration to whether he was right or wrong to keep that stuff private from you? How did you find out anyway? Did you investigate?

Anonymous 13w

Make him do the rice purity test

Anonymous

#1 13w

So the things he’s hid from me was questionable and he knew I wouldn’t like it but not things to break up over like cheating. He is loyal to me and I think he’s never intentionally tried to do things to hurt me. It’s more like he decides for himself that I wouldn’t like something and he doesn’t tell me about it. For example he went to Amsterdam and promised he wouldn’t go to the red lights district then he did and he maybe attempted to go to a sex show but couldn’t bc it was closing down.

Anonymous

OP 13w

I found out bc he kept a journal during his trip to Europe and I had asked to read it and every time I read so far with him he would pull it away and be like alright that’s enough reading. Which I thought was sus so I read it further when he left the room and found out he had gone and maybe tried to go to a sex club, and seen all the women when he had told me to my face that he didn’t look at the women and hadnt gone to a sex club or didn’t have intent to

Anonymous

#1 13w

He’s had other times where he got hit on by girls in a club and they touched him and I wasn’t around but I was upset he didn’t do more to tell them to back off. Which technically he was fine with walking away but the girl still followed him and kept trying to get his attention. And he said after I got upset that “this is why I don’t tell you things” which frightens me even more bc does that not insinuate he’s hidden other things?

Anonymous

#1 13w

Or I’ve seen his text gc with his guy friends who are dating my friends and his friends sent like nudes of women in the gc or links to leaked athletes photos, and they talk about our sex lives in it, I told my bf how this is wrong and now he’s like that’s my privacy you’re invading. But I feel now that he’s using privacy as an excuse to hide things from me. And he’s like you can’t look in that gc bc there’s things that you might see and go tell their gfs and you wouldn’t like it. And I’m like???

Anonymous

OP 13w

I get we all have like sometimes a wild gc but like.. I never snitched to their gfs when I saw them sending women’s nudes in the gc but also that’s really weird when you all have gfs and I think they shouldn’t be doing that

Anonymous

#1 13w

I love my bf very much, I want to marry him and I think he’s a good guy. But it’s going to cause major issues down the line if we are married and he lies to me about his whereabouts or when he’s doing or minor things bc he thinks he’s avoiding conflict and my natural reactions to these things