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okay date is tomorrow and my TUMMY HURTS. pls give me some pointers on what to say. idk what men like 😭
i’m abt to go on a date and on both my hinge and instagram i have pictures PRE summer and ive gained like 15lbs this summer but i haven’t taken any new pictures. should i say “hey im hella fat now”. i don’t want to catfish him
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Anonymous 8w

It things don’t work out between y’all then it’s not meant to be. Don’t stress about it he’s gonna have a problem with you for one reason or another. You’re overthinking this and that’s gonna do more harm than good. Just think of it like a hang out with someone you don’t know yet. Don’t pressure yourself to be someone you aren’t. Be genuine, and if genuine you isn’t what he wants then that’s his problem. I promise it’s gonna be alright whatever happens. Just try to breath and relax for a bit

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Anonymous 8w

Don’t stress abt it go in asking questions trying to learn more abt him and make sure to talk abt urself too. If it’s genuine it will come off as such

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Anonymous 8w

Ask him questions so you don’t have to worry about speaking too much or being entertaining on your own

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Anonymous 7w

“Hey, I think I should address something before our date tomorrow… over the past few months, I’ve gained bit of weight. I didn’t update my profile because the older pictures are where I feel most confident. I just wanted to give you a heads up so that you don’t think I was purposely catfishing you.” (Insert picture of what you CURRENTLY LOOK LIKE TODAY!)

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Anonymous 8w

Men are horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

🧍‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 8w

ig im just scared he’ll find me unattractive because at that point it won’t matter what i say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Then just find another guy who will find you attractive. If he’s really so superficial that he’ll dump you over 15 lbs then you prob don’t want to be with him anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 8w

ur right. it just hurts

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Almosr everyone has to deal with being rejected over their features, it’s ok and normal and there ARE billions of people who will be attracted to you

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