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I am 18 in college but have never had a bf, first kiss, or real talking stage… Would telling most guys this be a turn off or red flag? Guys show interest but I feel like I’m already so behind and it makes me insecure about not knowing how to do anything
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Anonymous 3d

So you’re like half of the male population? One of us

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Anonymous 2d

Don’t worry about not knowing anything. Practicing is fun. Just practice with a guy who likes you for you and you’re golden

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Anonymous 3d

Just don’t mention it? Why put it into emphasis if that’s your insecurity. Just pretend to know what you’re doing… and if it comes to IT then would be a good time to mention it I think… it wouldn’t be off putting to me… just some “training” to do but I could see where people would not like that but that would not bug me…. Maybe even honoring

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Anonymous 3d

It really is honestly fine, I know tons of amazing people (guy and girl alike) who are in your exact same spot, especially at 18 you are not behind at all and it’s not a red flag in the slightest

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Anonymous 3d

Maybe slightly, just don’t be too open about that, although there are some people who are hella picky “If she’s ever spoken to another man she’s of no value to me” so maybe you’d get some play with those weirdos

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Most men have had sex at least a few times

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Not true at 18, I’d say a slim majority of ppl in general enter college virgins

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

This is not true at any point

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 3d

Just looked it up, the median age to lose virginity is 16.6 years old. There’s just a culture of males with a vast majority who have not had sex and believe it is more common than it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I believe that’s an outdated statistic. The median age has increased in Gen Z.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Hell yeah Gen Z let's go

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

The median age for gen z is 16 down from 18 for Millennials but Gen Z does have less sex than previous generations. So we have sex younger but not as much. Additionally 1 in 4 gen Z adults have never had sex, if you’re curious

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