im not a man but i think all of these answers have smth in common. theyre all based on our individual preferences for receiving love. what would be most meaningful to him is going to be based on how *he* prefers to receive love. if he values praise/words of affirmation, give those. if he values quality time, go to church w him like someone else said. if he values acts of service, maybe do smth to make the process that much easier for him showing him u see how hard hes working. etc etc