Ask Men on Yik Yak | why would a guy who has liked for 14 years call me ran though behind my back despite the fact he knows i’ve been single/a virgin my whole life im confused (btw he watches andrew tate so idk if that’s useful info but uh yeah)

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Ask Men 6w

why would a guy who has liked for 14 years call me ran though behind my back despite the fact he knows i’ve been single/a virgin my whole life im confused (btw he watches andrew tate so idk if that’s useful info but uh yeah)

Anonymous 6w

He watches Andrew Tate that’s why.

Anonymous 6w

Sounds like he is in the Andrew Tate bubble of "insult women it'll make them like you". Personally if I were you Id confront him about it

Anonymous 6w

That’s something for him to unpack in a therapist’s office as he looks back upon a lifetime of resentment and regret and something for you to let run its course parallel to you, never letting your two paths cross.

Anonymous 6w

Andrew Tate that’s why

Anonymous 6w

How do you know he knows you’re a virgin? You generally wouldn’t know that. Even if you’ve told him, the obvious thing is that he apparently doesn’t believe you. Still an awful thing to say about someone he supposedly likes, but not a mystery

Anonymous 6w

Hes lost. There is masculinity without being toxic.

Anonymous

#2 6w

yeah he roped my friend into saying they are booth concerned about me and apparently he thinks im focusing on guys more then my own happiness so i was like wtf lemme text the other guy and he was like yeah never agreed for him to send that message and he showed me his snap messages with me calling me ran though

Anonymous

#3 6w

um unfortunately he decided to transfer to my college so 🤮 ( we are booth juniors)

Anonymous

OP 6w

Oop, this is gonna be fun

Anonymous

#2 6w

he’s blocked but I have to see him at my college now bc he transferred this year 💀

Anonymous

OP 6w

Is it a big college or small one?

Anonymous

#2 6w

small unfortunately

Anonymous

OP 6w

buy a gun or a bat, whichever is more permissible

Anonymous

#3 6w

I have this alarm keychain thing my grandma gave me where you press a button and it sounds a loud alarm i might put that on my bag

Anonymous

OP 6w

I wish you the best of luck in navigating this and hope you don't encounter him

Anonymous

OP 6w

fair enough. most state colleges probably also offer self defense classes through their gyms, which i’ve taken advantage of myself. would definitely recommend, very fun to take with a friend.

Anonymous

#2 6w

thank you I’ve already showed my friends pics of him and said avoid this man and don’t let him get close to me so i hope that helps

Anonymous

#3 6w

saw it’s a small college, find a martial arts club or something. you’ll figure it out.

Anonymous

#3 6w

i’ve already delt with stalking problems last yr and it’s clear my school doesn’t care enough unless they know where you live so I don’t know what will happen

Anonymous

OP 6w

well shit. best of luck to you.

Anonymous

#3 6w

yeah I reported it to campus safety they just recorded it and didn’t do shit,I put a concerned persons report on him through the school and all I was told was submit a title IX report that’s all you can do

Anonymous

#5 6w

I genuinely forgot I should have said this before but i’ve openly questioned if i’m asexual and ive told my friends about it so id think he knows im not interested in that stuff but regardless thats not ok to say true or not it’s not his place to comment on my sexual endeavors he’s just jealous because he thinks I get laid more than him 🤭🫣