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okay now what’s the lowest impact way to ask if he’s interested without COMPLETELY fucking our friendship

rosiepink

will i get rejected by guy best friend > buys me food > flips my hair when walking by > wants to see me long distance > listens to me talk nonstop for hours AND gives good advice > refuses to talk girls with me > sent me pillow w his face on it
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Anonymous 11w

i always bring this example up - but acknowledge the friendship, but then also acknowledge your interest in him (don't come off too strong, just say that there's some feelings/interest involved). then ask about his thoughts on that, to open up the floor for discussion without adding pressure on him or the friendship

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Anonymous 11w

Just ask him out or tell him how you feel it’ll work out

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Anonymous 11w

“Do you think about us together a lot”

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Anonymous 11w

okay i thought about it and how about prefacing with a request for a mature adult conversation and “ik we don’t rlly talk about this stuff but i think ive been developing feelings for you, and i wanted to wait until i was less isolated to make sure they were real. pls don’t get scared off bc regardless you’re a really important person to me, but i was wondering if you felt the same and if so, if you’d want to talk about that.”

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Anonymous 11w

If you and I had never met before would you try to rizz me up? And how?

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 11w

Smthn like that

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 11w

Definitely don’t do this bs

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Nah do it. And report back what happened.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

This is the answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i would say replace the "pls dont get scared off" sentence with "i still value our friendship and i want to discuss these feelings with you so i know how to handle them and continue our friendship."

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