No, because women are people who enjoy sex. I don’t have any sexual experience, but as someone who wants to obtain some, who am I to judge women for having it? I think a lot of the aversion other guys have to body count comes from a mix of slut shaming, purity culture, and objectification of women.
Respectfully, and you’ve admitted this, you have no idea what you’re talking about. You can enjoy sex intentionally with one person you actually love many times instead of hooking up with 20 random dudes. You don’t have to judge people that do that as lesser than you or whatever—that would be messed up—but you are also not obligated to want to be with such a person, in fact most people do not like that at all. It’s simple, most people are not promiscuous & do not want to be with people that are
He’s putting it in rather ugly terminology, but his point is truthful of most men’s opinion on this, & there’s no misogyny involved with that. We overall don’t want to be with a promiscuous woman; although it may have logical moral value & lifestyle justifications, I think it also runs even deeper to something primally embedded in the psyche. The only people that say they do are either themselves promiscuous, sociopathic liars trying to take advantage, naive, or an extreme minority
I don’t think men wanting to only be in loving committed sexual relationships with likeminded women is a bad thing—I actually think that’s a rly healthy & good thing tbh. Most men & women alike find hookup culture/high body count to be toxic. If you don’t, then that’s your own view & I sincerely hope you can find someone similar to you in that to be happy with. Most of us do not want any association with that at all though, and are very normal for not wanting to