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do u care abt body count when it comes to dating (explain why)
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Anonymous 12w

I personally believe body count can say a lot about a person. I’d prefer someone who has a lower as I also have a lower and feel as that’s something that better suits me in most scenarios.

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Anonymous 12w

I think of sex as something that I only want to do with a woman I deeply love and I want my partner to share that opinion with me. If a woman has a body count of 15, I don’t think any less of her as a person, but she definitely doesn’t hold the same values about sex that I do

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Anonymous 12w

Cuz it’s gross if they’ve fucked a lotta guys

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Anonymous 12w

Personally, it’s hard to expect someone with a high count to be committed to a relationship since high body counts are usually from hookups. Obviously there can be exceptions, but that’s the general impression I get

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Anonymous 12w

I don’t think the number matters as much as the place she’s at in her life. Idc if you have a hoe phase behind you as long as you’re ready to settle down now. I had a hoe phase too so who am I to judge

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Anonymous 12w

Higher = more experienced = better

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Anonymous 11w

Reading these comments makes it seem true, that there really is a shift to the right/conservatism among younger guys. Does not bode well for our future…

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Anonymous 12w

No, because women are people who enjoy sex. I don’t have any sexual experience, but as someone who wants to obtain some, who am I to judge women for having it? I think a lot of the aversion other guys have to body count comes from a mix of slut shaming, purity culture, and objectification of women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

In what way

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Anonymous 12w

Well a shit sandwich is disgusting because shit smells bad and carries bacteria that cause illness. In what way is it gross to have fucked a lot of guys? Especially if she tests neg for diseases?

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Anonymous 12w

I feel a visceral primordial disgust towards your slut shaming and description of women as “ran through,” as if women are merely objects to be consumed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Respectfully, and you’ve admitted this, you have no idea what you’re talking about. You can enjoy sex intentionally with one person you actually love many times instead of hooking up with 20 random dudes. You don’t have to judge people that do that as lesser than you or whatever—that would be messed up—but you are also not obligated to want to be with such a person, in fact most people do not like that at all. It’s simple, most people are not promiscuous & do not want to be with people that are

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Anonymous 12w

You’re putting this very crassly/harshly, which only undermines your point, but I agree with the substance of what you’ve said. I would add the caveat that it’s not disgust towards the ppl themselves specifically, so much as disgust towards the thought of being with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Speak for yourself, I suppose. I don’t have any sexual experience myself but I would not be opposed to being with someone who was “promiscuous,” as long as they were free of any stis.

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Anonymous 12w

Are you a virgin then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

You’re having exactly the right response to this guy, and you are picking up on his rampant misogyny, which he might not even realize he has. And I agree, he is absolutely disgusting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11w

He’s putting it in rather ugly terminology, but his point is truthful of most men’s opinion on this, & there’s no misogyny involved with that. We overall don’t want to be with a promiscuous woman; although it may have logical moral value & lifestyle justifications, I think it also runs even deeper to something primally embedded in the psyche. The only people that say they do are either themselves promiscuous, sociopathic liars trying to take advantage, naive, or an extreme minority

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11w

I don’t think men wanting to only be in loving committed sexual relationships with likeminded women is a bad thing—I actually think that’s a rly healthy & good thing tbh. Most men & women alike find hookup culture/high body count to be toxic. If you don’t, then that’s your own view & I sincerely hope you can find someone similar to you in that to be happy with. Most of us do not want any association with that at all though, and are very normal for not wanting to

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11w

Also, holding such views is not indicative of any rightward conservative shift you’re talking about, I’m literally a Bernie supporter and find him to not be left enough

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