Ask Men on Yik Yak | Guys, be honest if a girl is super approachable, smiles a lot, expressive, and beautiful… could that actually intimidate you? Asking because literally never been approached F21

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Ask Men 5w

Guys, be honest if a girl is super approachable, smiles a lot, expressive, and beautiful… could that actually intimidate you? Asking because literally never been approached F21

Anonymous 5w

Pretty women are scary, many of us feel we don’t stand a chance

Anonymous 5w

Any decent looking woman would intimidate me. But I’m just one dude, I’m sure guys will approach you frequently if you’re decent looking and put yourself out there (especially social places)

Anonymous 5w

By definition, if you’re approachable, you’re not intimidating (Idk which of those things is true of you, but they can’t both be)

Anonymous 5w

I had a crush like this in hs. She was like the most socialist of all butterflies and was popular and stuff, and at the time I had like zero self esteem so when she literally came up with her friend and point blank asked if I liked her I was too afraid to say I did. It isn’t the same as being approached but I do think a lot of guys just don’t think of themselves as worthy of that. Maybe that’s just me though idk. I still think I harbor that feeling subconsciously though

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Anonymous 5w

Not intimidating I’d approach

Anonymous 5w

Idk, it sounds like you’re doing all the right things!

Anonymous

#1 5w

I always put myself out there, actually I am most likely to approach the guy if I like. I don’t hold back cuz I am super social and I can tap about anything🤭🤭 I even ask guys number and give mine if I really like them but they don’t text or respond me that much even if I text quick idk

Anonymous

OP 5w

Yap*(not tap)

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Anonymous

bobthebuilt 5w

Idk why u don’t get approached, u have rbf or smth, like zero hate but if that’s true there’s gotta be smth

Anonymous

bobthebuilt 5w

RBF? 😂 That’s funny, because literally everyone says I’m super friendly and give off happy spring vibes 🌸

Anonymous

#5 5w

I get approached by girlies all the time hence my squad 😏 I make friends everywhere I go(only girls tho hehehehe) But guys? Nada. Who says you can’t be both approachable and intimidating… keeps life interesting 🤭

Anonymous

OP 5w

Wdym ‘who says’? Nobody, that’s just… how language works. Like how you can’t be a tall dwarf, or a biped with one leg, or an expat who never left your hometown. And if you’re approachable to women and intimidating to men, well, that should tell you something useful; whether you realize it or not, you’re treating them differently somehow

Anonymous

#5 5w

I loved ur answer! But Honestly? I don’t treat anyone differently 😏 If I like a guy, I give my shot life’s too short to wait around for the first move of a guy. I just ask their number or give mine (did it twice and have been ghosted) So yeah… apparently I do my part, and if it’s not reciprocated… well, that’s their loss 🤷‍♀️ Approachable to women, intimidating to men? Huh… maybe some guys just can’t handle friendly confidence 😎 Not my problem they’re the ones overthinking it.

Anonymous

#7 5w

Lesson learned: always say yes to the pretty girl 😏 you never know she might be waiting for that too🤭

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Anonymous

OP 5w

Idk, there’s gotta be smth

Anonymous

OP 5w

I couldn’t conceive of it at the time but she probably was. She was very nice to me, made a point to talk to me, similar to what you’re describing. People are still capable of seeing you even if you aren’t. I appreciate this post, I think this is a topic that we should really discuss more openly, I think that would be good for a lot of men.

Anonymous

#7 5w

Yeah, from my own experience it’s not easy for girls either. If I have a crush, I get so nervous, but if I go out of my way to talk or make the first move, it means I’m really interested and making an effort. Sometimes I feel like that might even scare guys off, I’m not sure. But I totally agree with you next time, just give it a shot buddy 😉