Anonymous #3 5w

I would feel bad but it wouldn’t change my feelings for her

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Anonymous dark_pink_tulip43 5w

respectfully why would you want to go back to him if he made you bleed ??? and why would you even ask what a man’s reaction would be. when it’s HIS fault. HE should be worried about YOU not coming back bc that is not normal. long fingers are not gonna make you bleed, dicks are literally longer so idek what you’re on about with that. also not seeing how rough would do it unless you mean like calloused hands. I’m thinking this post wasn’t made by a woman bc a woman would know how a vagina works

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Anonymous #4 5w

Respectfully this is such a weird thing to say. Like not everyone has access to good sex education and can panic or be unsettled when something unexpected happens.

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Anonymous #3 5w

I live in a red state, I had absolutely zero education on sex and had no idea what was going on my first time to the point that I did things that caused me harm. I still wouldn’t be dumb enough to think that a finger that is smaller than a dick would be “too long” and cause bleeding like idk what to tell you

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Anonymous #4 5w

Good for you, I agree that it isnt because of size (as shown by my other reply)? Perchance learn empathy and compassion :)

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Anonymous #3 5w

man I had some at first which is why I’m genuinely wondering why you’d invite a guy back that would make you bleed ESPECIALLY if he made you feel like you should be worried about it. it sounds like he acted grossed out or at minimum didn’t apologize or check on her which is ???

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Anonymous #4 5w

Idk girl saying OP probably isnt a woman doesnt sound like compassion lol

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Anonymous #3 5w

that was a later thought and happens 24/7. I just feel a woman would know what it feels like to have fingers in you. like you can tell if nails are scratching and it HURTS so maybe say something ??? also I’m just in a bad mood bc my family keeps yelling at me for going to grad school instead of getting pregnant so I’m not in the moment to be having convos

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Anonymous #4 5w

It’s ok Im sorry ur going through it 🫂

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Anonymous #4 5w

Sometimes girls bleed. Even when the guy is gentle. It’s normal when it’s a little bit

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Anonymous #4 5w

Lol!! I don’t think I said I was going back, and I didn’t ask for you to bring me down for being a woman who is concerned her vagina is bleeding! I asked for the thoughts of the men because I wanted the perspective of a man! I didn’t give the entire story because, again, I only wanted to hear the perspective of a man who has been in this situation or just guys in general tbh. I’m sorry you’re in a bad mood but maybe coming on here isn’t gonna help you with that, I hope you feel better though! :)

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Anonymous dark_pink_tulip43 5w

But I didn’t come on here to argue I just wanted some opinions of the men!! Thx everyone 😊😊

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Anonymous #4 5w

Girly pop I’ve made myself bleed before when it comes to fingering and I cleaned my hands, went gently and had shorter nails. Sometimes shit happens. Don’t blame it on him, because he could’ve been doing everything right and it can STILL happen

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Anonymous dark_pink_tulip43 5w

girl bye 🙄 not you letting the men be nicer than you just bc you can’t stand up for yourself

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