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how do i flirt with men… serious answers only

Anonymous 3w

You don't need to flirt like that, you just have to make yourself available to him. Meaning you present him with the opportunity to talk to you and you feel it out there. If you like, then you use body language to ramp things upward. Strong eye contact, positive reception to his jokes and shi, slightly touching him (like on the arm) during convo

Anonymous 3w

Be direct, you’ll either get a boyfriend or know he’s not interested, and it’ll only take 2 minutes

Anonymous 3w

Complement, light physical touch

Anonymous 3w

Literally just say hi and give the guy a compliment. If he’s at all interested, he’ll get the hint and take it from there

Anonymous 3w

I feel like it’s super easy. Tell me I’m handsome or literally anything positive towards appearance. I’ll either say thanks which means I appreciate the notice or I’ll say you’re pretty cute too which means I’m interested. If you say I’m a nice person or something I’m just gonna assume you’re being kind.

Anonymous 3w

My personal favorite is really subtle compliments that you have to confirm with eye contact, if they’re stupid it doesn’t even register as flirting which is awesome.

Anonymous

#1 3w

Great answer

Anonymous

#5 3w

Bad advice imo

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Anonymous

#2 3w

But you advice of “physical touch” is better?

Anonymous

#5 3w

I mean that’s not really flirting, I don’t think it’s bad advice, but it’s not advice they haven’t heard before.

Anonymous

#5 3w

I mean yea that’s what I pick up on, I wouldn’t pick up on hi and a complement as anything more than friendly, as my experience has been that is a friendly gesture, where breaking the touch barrier is less likely to be so

Anonymous

#2 3w

I feel like there’s three types of flirting, romantic flirting, sexual flirting, and flirting to show interest. There’s definitely a lot of overlap, but the last one is hugely dependent on what the person is looking for and also what they aren’t looking for. I don’t think you should flirt in a way that misrepresents your intentions. Touch is great for getting people in the mood, so it might set the tone wrong.

Anonymous

#3 3w

For example, “Everything in this museum is beautiful,” but I hope that she can tell from how I’m looking into her eyes that I meant her. If she gets flustered we’re going for lunch after. If she doesn’t, she’s either not into me or not exciting, either way, not worth the time.

Anonymous

#3 3w

Obviously things aren’t that cut and dry in reality. There’s also probably only one opportunity to fit one of those in smoothly for every thirty minutes of conversation, but it’s my personal favorite. Sexual flirting is also pretty great, but it’s only really rewarding with someone you love. Otherwise it’s kind of like, cool, I guess we’re here now, what’s the next step, until here is post nut clarity.