That’s the thing is that most of us, when there’s no other sign than finishing, don’t know if you’re enjoying yourself or not unless some noises are being made, and finishing isn’t always the teller either cuz many dudes can fuck a girl he hates or isn’t into and still finish. For many of us, at least some noise tells us that we feel good in some capacity and it makes us more comfortable for coming back for more if that makes sense
Think about how uncomfortable you would feel if you were having sex with a girl and she was dead silent. Maybe you assume she’s enjoying it, but the absence of any signals to confirm that would probably make you doubt yourself and make it harder for you to be in the moment without worrying about whether you’re doing something wrong.
Trying to intentionally give more verbal signals that you’re enjoying yourself(moans, saying it feels good, etc) isn’t faking anything if you actually are enjoying yourself. It’s just being more intentionally communicative. And once you get used to it it stops feeling like an affectation and becomes more natural.
Whispering counts but what the hell is that 😭😭😭🙏🏾 whispering definitely counts for me tho, I had a deaf ex who had cochlears and he usually took them off during sex but one day he didn’t and I asked him why and he whispered in my ear “I wanna hear you baby”. That was 4 fucking years ago and I still think about that shit 😭 best orgasm of my life