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i asked my situationship why he didn’t like me and he said "wdym?" then i said "so you do like me?" then he told me to be quiet and go to bed. what does this mean? sometimes i can’t tell if he’s just a good person or if he likes me
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Anonymous 21h

Sounds like he likes you

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Anonymous 19h

Why do yall even do this shit

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Anonymous 18h

It doesn’t tell us whether he’s a good person, but there’s nothing significant about these answers (beyond basic common sense). Obviously he likes you, and you asked him an attack question based on the premise that he doesn’t. The correct response to that by a guy is to shut it down and not take the bait, which is what he did Mind games with women are like nuclear war; the winning move is not to play

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Anonymous 21h

Sounds like y’all are both trying to play too many games. Just be straight up with people

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

i am straight up with him. i don’t want a relationship and i think he doesn’t want to say he likes me knowing i don’t want a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

That doesn’t seem very healthy. I’d suggest not doing relationship things if you don’t want a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

There’s nothing inherently unhealthy about doing “relationship things” if both ppl are on the same page

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

we have a healthy relationship. we have open communication and we know our boundaries. we don’t do all relationshipy things. we mostly just hang out like normal friends and every now and then we have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

personally i don’t want a relationship and at the start of us fucking ik he didn’t want a relationship either. it’s been a year and a half now and im at the point where i think im ready for a relationship but only if it goes slowly. im totally okay id he doesn’t want a relationship but im open to the idea of one

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

okay wait you have a point. he’s a great guy, i’ve taken up on a lot of his habits bc i see how kind he is to strangers and i want to be like that. also we’re both autistic as fuck (me more than him) and we both ask straight up questions all the time so it’s not unusual

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