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do u guys care if ur significant other goes out to clubs/parties once in a while?

Anonymous 9w

If I’m invited, not at all. If I’m not, I’m making Joe Goldberg look like SpongeBob SquarePants

Anonymous 9w

nope. That’s a grown woman

Anonymous 9w

im okay with it if I trust you and you’re not risking your safety by getting drunk or doing substances. Drinking and drugs scare me.

Anonymous 9w

Im not sure. I dont really club or party and am not fond of it. Id be more ok if she wasnt drinking. But otherwise id probably still not want her to

Anonymous 9w

If we were in a relationship it's safe to assume I trust her in this scenario, however I don't trust random strangers at clubs or parties and I definitely don't trust her single friends. Nobody is more harmful to a person's relationship than that person's single friends.

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Anonymous

#3 9w

what if she has like only one or two drinks?? and she manages and knows her limit? its really not about trust, its about letting her experience life with her friends in college (if shes going out to bars in college). if u dont trust her, it just shows ur insecure. i lnow this bc i had the same issue with my ex. i wasnt allowed to go out bc he was nervous i was gonna get drunk off my ass. i never did.

Anonymous

#2 9w

when I said drunk, I meant wasted or anything past tipsy. I dont drink at all so to me that’s what I meant. I also already said if I trust her. I wouldn’t date someone I don’t trust to know their limits or do risky stuff when drunk. And I’m not helicopter parenting a full grown woman

Anonymous

#7 9w

RIGHT ANSWER!!!👏🏼👏🏼

Anonymous

#6 9w

Yeah but if you trust her, she’ll reject any advances regardless of who’s at the club. If u think ur girl is easily swayed by her friends, you still don’t trust her