Be confident and self sufficient. A man knows he can rely on himself regardless of the state of the world around him. He trusts himself to figure it out and move forward. One of the hardest parts of this is making peace with being alone if necessary.

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Just ask yourself if the person you're dropping things to do would do the same for you

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Only person you got your whole life is yourself(sibling and wife once ur married too) but once u get that through ur head it helps a lot. Just gotta really tell urself that

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no literally. literally. i don’t really so much admire it tho bc in the situations ive been in and seen they typically fuck over a woman doing so

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Idk why guys do it. I try to lead a sacrificial life trying to uplift my friends and family before myself. Yeah it sucks but being a man means being a rock and shield for the people you love.

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I often find myself in the service of others, but I can still offer advice to help you. I’d guess be selfish and block out the guilt of not helping. If you hope to not care about others at all. Though I wouldn’t recommend this path. It’s bad for the soul.

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