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Most guys find me very attractive but unlike a lot of my friends I’m still a virgin; I’m afraid of intimacy at this point because of how inexperienced I feel for my age what are guys honest opinions on girls like me
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Anonymous 11w

Tons of guys don’t have experience either. Just take it slow and be with some one who is cool with that

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Anonymous 11w

I was like that until I met my current boyfriend in my 20s. He was just patient with me and it was a learning curve for sure but nothing bad happened and we have a great sex life now.

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Anonymous 11w

Ok 👍

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Anonymous 11w

I was the same way, my friends are too. I’m still inexperienced but if they treat u bad bc if it they weren’t worth it anyways. Dm me if you want

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Anonymous 11w

I feel this way as well but likely am not as attractive and I’ve been told it doesn’t impact their opinion of you much because the right guys will be fine with it and patient

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Anonymous 11w

Fine 👍 prob would just be patient and take things slow

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Anonymous 11w

I’m not judging

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Anonymous 11w

Its ok to be a virgin. I know theres this stigma that you need to loose it as fast as possible but there is nothing wrong with waiting till you find someone you want to give it to. Guard your heart and mind and dont rush things. You got this!

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Anonymous 11w

Too good to be true 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

It really doesn’t if they’re a normal person 💀 I told my boyfriend I was a virgin and he just said “lemme know when you wanna change that” and moved on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

a lot of guys say this ^ 💀 be careful

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11w

Dam I feel like I was misunderstood 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Why is that? It seems pretty clear cut

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

I think people think I’m being predatory, I’m just saying as a virgin dude I also want a virgin gf and most women have numerous bodies

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Wanting a virgin only is weird. Virginity doesn’t make you better than anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

They think that cuz you’re acting like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

How is it predatory having a standard (which I personally meet btw)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Bc it is? If it’s for marriage it may be a bit different but also shaming girls for not virgins isn’t it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

It’s putting it on a pedestal?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Other women can do what they want, they’re not my gfs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

There’s no non-predatory reason to have that standard. People who aren’t virgins can prove they don’t have STIs with a test, so the only reason to have that “standard” is because you want your partner “pure” (creepy) or naive to how sex works (creepier)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

Ur weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

Honestly don’t care. Yall do what you want and I’ll do what I want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Ur the one who said it? Also continually asking if a girl is a virgin and then “not believing it” is weird. People are actually having less sex. Ur whole viewpoint is odd

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I never said you couldn’t be a creep you just literally asked me a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Glad you think so 😭✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11w

I know I might be a smaller percentage of girls but jeez we do exist!!!! Saying this is so off putting sorry

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