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Ask Men 16w
my bf who is 29 constantly brings up my virginity and how it makes me so “pure” and “innocent” am i wrong for getting icked out?
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Anonymous 16w

There’s a difference between preferring women with a low body count and fetishizing it

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Anonymous 16w

tell him it grosses you out because it makes you seem childlike and if he gets snippy about it DUMP HIM

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Anonymous 16w

Yeah after reading all of this, you're not a person to him just an object which is why he is fetishizing the whole virgin thing. Dude absolutely doesn't respect you

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Anonymous 16w

He fetishizes about it and that’s a problem you needa get outta there

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Anonymous 15w

🏃‍♂️💨Nope nope nopeity nope.

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Anonymous 15w

Why are you! A virgin (I’m assuming much younger than 29) dating a man who’s almost 30!!! Girl WTF!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

i agree he needs to be locked up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

i have, he gets defensive and says he’ll wait however long i need even after marriage but then goes back to say the same BS 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Locked up may be a bit far but it’s definitely not great

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Call him out on it then for his behavior if telling him that it grosses you out and he still doesn't change

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

i used to think so too until i find out about his search history and how he wants me to be banged by bunch of big black dudes 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Changing my answer to what 2 said. That is a major red flag that he is fetishizing you being a virgin. Make like Scooby-Doo and skedaddle

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Oh dear

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 15w

i was naive and inexperienced 😔 trust me i’ve learned my lesson now

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 15w

I’m not sure his age is that relevant to this, besides him likely being a part of a proper subset of older people who specifically seek out younger virgins because they fetishize their “purity” or “innocence”.

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