my girlfriend may be seen as chubby to most people but i love thicker women more than skinny women. I just don’t honestly find skinny women nearly as attractive. Looks are subjective so while to others you may not be seen as as conventionally attractive, to others you’ll be much more beautiful than the rest. it’s all subjective and just about finding the right people
This gets downvoted but as a guy I had to learn this. I get phone numbers 4x more often now that I'm down 30lbs. Was working out for a while, and women started taking interest back. It sucks but it's the honest reality. Yes there are outliers but they are mode rare than society likes to imply.
I will second this. Me losing 50 lbs in 1 year has made a night and day difference. Ik it sucks but the only men who like “big girls” tend to be fat themselves. So for OP or anyone else wants to pull an attractive guy they are gonna have to lose weight and get in shape and not soon enough plenty of attractive guys will want you