Anonymous #1 17h

Wait, men care in general because evolutionarily it is more valuable to have a partner that is not promiscuous ao that you don’t have to worry about spending resources raising a child that is not your own

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Anonymous #1 17h

How does that make sense considering modernity though? That’s like saying as a woman, I naturally want to have as many sexual partners as possible to ensure my child is less likely to be killed by grown males (which is a real biological phenomena). With monogamy being the general norm, I don’t understand how this makes sense. Unless the implication is that because she’s had sex with a lot of other people she’s more likely to cheat? Which seems like a stretch

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Anonymous OP 17h

Also I should add if you don’t care, feel free to lmk as welll, I swear I worded this do men care not and not why so that’s entirely on me

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Anonymous #2 17h

This is how I realized I used “why” instead of “do” omg

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Anonymous OP 17h

We still carry that evolutionary programming. It’s why guys like girls with big butts or girls like tall guys. It is silly tho to care, which is why I choose not to

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Anonymous #1 17h

True, but I think it holds up a lot less since a lot of things we find attractive is also influenced by society. For example, evolutionarily men like women who are obviously sexually mature, and this often means bigger bodies and more curves. But most modern men prefer women with shaven body hair, which is a trait found exclusively in children because it’s been conditioned to be seen as appealing.

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Anonymous OP 17h

I think also explains why some men are so aggressive, if that’s the right word, towards women’s body counts. Sure there may be some evolutionary reasons somewhere in there, but mostly o think society pushes the idea that being a whore, slut, or easy is one of the worst things a woman can be.

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Anonymous OP 17h

It's one of the best things a woman can be ❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous #2 17h

I’m neutral on it. I think it’s entirely ok to have a very low body count and entirely okay to have a high one as long as you’re respectful to any and all partners and are safe

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Anonymous #2 17h

I think sexually promiscuous women can be very happy if they are comfortable with short term relationships. I think hook up culture can hurt girls who are expecting to find men who are interested in a committed relationship

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Anonymous #3 14h

So you’d want someone with similar views on sex then? Like you’d want to both be virgins? I hear that view a lot and get it

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Anonymous #4 13h

There are plenty of ways to have a high body count without risking STDS! Anyways, this question is meant to be more subjective to individual views on body counts. You think then that a lower body count for me and women is what best then? (Not arguing or like provoking this is me genuinely making sure I understand you)

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