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how tf do men take getting yelled at so well 😭 they don’t even get mad just shocked. I be crying
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Anonymous 3d

We are raised to be tough

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Anonymous 3d

Men are conditioned to suppress their feelings. Additionally, we think logically, and the best course of action oftentimes is to deescalate and remain stoic. Also, most men typically disregard HOW someone says something and only care about WHAT they’re saying.

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Anonymous 3d

I mean I am not allowed to take it poorly unless I trust them

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Anonymous 3d

Its pretty conditioned into us to kind of just sit there and take it. There is a breaking point but look at it like static vs dynamic friction

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Anonymous 3d

What are we supposed to do? Crying usually won’t solve the issue that led to us getting yelled at…

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Anonymous 3d

side point. it’s also not lost on me that #3 was trying so hard to say women condition men to not show emotion but he was the one “😂😂😂” the second he personally felt like I was showing too much emotion

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Anonymous 3d

Bc if we do anything but just take it we become the villain

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

okay but not even getting mad ??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Sure maybe but we can’t show that either, or at least we shouldn’t. We especially shouldn’t make an ass of ourselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

this is gonna make me sound bad, I promise it’s not often. but sometimes I’ll get snappy with a man online bc I’m in a bad mood or misunderstood him. I do always fix myself quickly and apologize but they’re always so calm about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I mean online things happen, I was more referring to in person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I’m not yelling at a man in person I’m not getting beat up 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I’ve only ever see men react negatively to men crying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Exactly. Women, too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I’m sure some do. But I’ve never seen it. I’ve only ever seen men put other men down for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

?? Women think logically. I’m not even reading the rest of that if you genuinely think only men think logically

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Lmao that’s such an emotional response 😂😂😂 “This makes me angy so I’m not reading 😡”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I think both men and women think logically in the sense that their trains of thought make sense. I just mean men think excessively logically, to the point of being devoid of emotion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

holy fuck I wasn’t aware of how many incels were on this app. I assumed you were one #3 as soon as you ignored me the first time I said men shame men for their emotions and tried to blame women

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

#3 isn’t showing a devoid of emotion. Actually most men I come into contact with don’t show a devoid of emotion in th slightest

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Tbf a I’ve heard many stories of women leaving their partner the moment the guy shows any weakness

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Yes, I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. I’m just saying online and in person when I SEE it it’s always men shaming men. when it’s women shaming men it’s bc I HEARD a man tell me that happened to him

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