You can’t really control attraction, but a serious man will value his partner so much that he will dismiss attraction as silly and childish

69

Whenever I’ve been in a relationship, women other than my partner did not interest me

39

When I’m in a relationship, I don’t think of other women. If a supermodel served us food, I wouldn’t fantasize/lust over her. At most, I’d think “why is she working here instead of on a runway” lol

29

We might find someone attractive, but we love our partner and that is much stronger than just a random attraction.

28

I mean there are involuntary thoughts on occasion but I always try to shut them down asap

9

I think we can acknowledge that a woman is attractive without being lustrous over it. Especially in a relationship, yeah my girl is my one and only but that doesn’t make Rosie Huntington-Whiteley ugly.

8

I see a million girls talk about how they want to brutally murder men everywhere on social media. Does that actually mean anything though?

6

No? Most I think is “wow she’s pretty” and then I go about my day?

6

When I fall in love with a woman every other one becomes chopped in my eyes

5

Hey look I’ll check out other girls (and guys too cuz I’m bi) but I know it is my responsibility as a man to be loyal to my guy or girl and it is my duty to take care of my partner and meet al their needs and especially shut down any action that crosses boundaries by other people no matter how I feel about them

2

Physical vs emotional

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Yes

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Tbh maybe I'm not the right guy to answer because I'm not a very sexual person (I don't experience sexual attraction the same way other people do), but I certainly don't feel this way. I get attached to people and once that happens, I'm pretty limited to that one woman. It has pros and cons. It's very hard for me to get over exes but extremely easy for me to stay faithful. Even when I think other women are beautiful or sexy, it's not the same feeling that's triggered by a romantic partner.

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Just as much as discipline is for a girl not to go out and sleep with a bunch of dudes, the same is true with dudes having the discipline to not cheat on their partner.

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