I know I’m a relatively attractive guy and get approached/pursued by women—I try to be kind when rejecting them. I don’t think there really is a one sided meanness at all, it rly depends on the individual. I try to isolate myself from women outside my family tbh. I think the meanest thing I’ve done is just be very professional/business-like/cold if I get the feeling someone likes me. If they verbalize that attraction I’ll try and kindly let them down