Ask Men on Yik Yak | my guy coworker was telling me that guys like girls as time goes on and she shows she’s considerate and caring of him etc. it’s a growing like whereas girls like who they like and no amount of caring from a guy can suddenly make her like him true?

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my guy coworker was telling me that guys like girls as time goes on and she shows she’s considerate and caring of him etc. it’s a growing like whereas girls like who they like and no amount of caring from a guy can suddenly make her like him true?

Anonymous 4w

I think neither is always true. It depends on the individual, people aren’t necessarily defined by their gender

Anonymous 4w

That’s def not concrete, It can be the opposite. This generality does apply though: Girls will disqualify for any reason within a certain threshold of guy, whereas a guy will look to qualify despite the red flags for a certain amount of a time given he thinks he has a chance

Anonymous 4w

Nah I feel like it’s the other way around. I literally fall in love with a girl if she gives me attention and isn’t ugly. Women are hardwired to need to have built trust before they can fall in love

Anonymous 4w

idk if i explained this well lmao, honestly he confused me too but i kind of get what he was saying he meant girls decide they like someone earlyyy on and no amount of good (or bad) can make them like someone they didn’t consider out of nowhere (or the opposite) but for guys that actually does happen?

Anonymous 4w

Hold on I have a diagram for this

Anonymous

#1 4w

that’s what i said! i literally dont even know. i don’t think he’d disagree with the first thing you said tho. so yeah i think i didn’t get what he was trying to say 💀

Anonymous

#4 4w

Left side is how men generally evaluate women, right side is how women generally evaluate men

Anonymous

#1 4w

I agree with #3 as this is a very case by case thing. I could see the hottest woman in the world but if she doesn’t give a shit about me, I’m not gonna care about her either because there’s no reason for me to care. Now if an average looking girl always is nice to me, you can bet she’s gonna be on my mind.

Anonymous

#4 4w

Where can I find this image cause it’s kinda hard to read it on here but I do wanna read it lol