
I'm so sorry, misunderstood your post and that's completely my bad so I'm gonna take my comment down. In that case, I agree with you, what Beaver said, and what User 1 said. I don't think it's right for people to judge what their partner has done in the past as long as what they did is consensual. That's their and the people they did things with privacy/business only, and I do really dislike how anti-sex a lot of guys are towards women while being hypocrites with themselves/other men
I'm with you, I also read the question the same way as you did so I didn't realize OP is being critical of guys who do this. I think OP should have phrased this better because like you said, I don't think it's good to phrase it like this given it's doing the same things as misogynistic men who talk like this
Whether intentionally or not, it sounded like you were asking men, and specifically men, if they realize they will marry someone who had a lot of sexual partners before them, even though men sometimes have a lot of sexual partners as well. And the term “hoe” has a very negative/mocking connotation so it sounded like you were saying that not only should men and only men be aware of that possibility but also that it’s necessarily a bad thing.