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Ask Men 17w
my boyfriend is texting a lot of lol and not texting me very much even during work why ( we have been together now for a year and three months going on four
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Anonymous 17w

Really could be a variety of reasons. -could’ve gotten in trouble for being on his phone too much -is comfortable in the relationship now and doesn’t feel the need to put in that much effort into messaging -feels like your smothering him, maybe someone at work made a joke about how often he’s messaging you. -he’s cheating -etc.

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Anonymous 17w

I don’t know what job just lets you use your phone at work so that seems like the answer for that. Best bet is to talk to him and communicate. We aren’t going to know the answer unfortunately

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Anonymous 16w

He is doing it again and I talked to him and I told him how much I hate it

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Anonymous 16w

So I’m not talking to him for a whole day

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Anonymous 16w

I also went on all the dating apps so I could think about him going on and he’s not on them

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 17w

Ok

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 17w

It’s at Walmart and he used to snap me all the time when he worked there but now he doesn’t at all

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 17w

He also leaves me on read

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

I’d just recommend talking to him. We aren’t going to be able to know why his tone of texting has changed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Definitely ask him about it first, if he tells you what the reason is-awesome! You can adjust. If he brushes it off and says idk why you’re talking about. go with the smothering answer and stop messaging him. It will help with all the other possibilities. He won’t get in trouble at work, he will start to miss you-which will make him put a little more effort and reach out eventually. you won’t be smothering him if that’s the reason. If he’s cheating, nothing helps.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

How did that go?

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