
I'm not sure if I am understanding your question correctly, but if the way I'm interpreting it is how much do we like someone we have feelings for and what kinda things we'd do to keep seeing them? If I got that right, for me, I try to initiate conversations and find time we can hang out if they want to hang out too. I tend to not initiate flirting because I don't want to do it unless someone's fine with it, but if she initiates flirting first, I start flirting back