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What do guys mean when they say they want “submissive women”
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Anonymous 5w

Personally I view a submissive woman as a woman who will be in a supportive role and less of the breadwinner. She’d trust me to make big decisions for us, and still give input whenever she wants her voice heard. it’s my responsibility to show that I have the integrity to make said decisions. Just my take tho

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Anonymous 5w

Wouldn't know, I like dominant women :)

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Anonymous 5w

They want to be the leader

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Anonymous 5w

I think is basically a woman that follows tradition gender roles and is not “argumentative or moody”

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Anonymous 5w

women they can control. run girl run.

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Anonymous 5w

Google the definition of submissive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

leader or abuser?🧐

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Automatically assuming someone who wants to lead is an abuser is crazy 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

But like what kinds of decisions? If it’s something that affects her equally wouldn’t you want to make a decision where you both collaborated?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Thats what I meant by her giving her input whenever necessary. Like say he is making decisions about where they invest their money, but a joint decision would be what school the kids go to. That make sense?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I still think it should be a joint decision. He could be a finance major and specialize in that which means he’d be able to hold more weight make that decision but she could also be a finance major and be the one to make the decision. It’s just more about expertise and strengths and weaknesses. Not really about dominant and submissive if that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Then you aren’t a submissive woman. Theres nothing wrong with not being submissive lmao. It’s just a different dynamic than normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I just hate that it’s associated with femininity

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I get that, I don’t like submissive women generally I look for assertive women because I hate when people don’t speak their mind. It doesn’t hurt that 90% of men who want that dynamic can’t lead how they need to for it to work😭

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