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If a pretty unattractive woman comes up to you and she’s being really friendly and honestly trying to get to know you in a little complimentary, do you think she’s flirting with you or just being kind?
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Anonymous 10w

I’m just really friendly to everyone I meet on my college campus and a lot of women seem to struggle with genuinely going out there and approaching guy friends the way you would women. And then I started describing what I do, and it sounded like I was flirting.😭

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Anonymous 10w

I would just find it friendly unless it became obvious flirting. I don’t always just assume girls are flirting just because they talk to me.

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Anonymous 10w

Once had a girl friend say she flirts when she’s being friendly and if shes just being friendly thats when she’s flirting. From that point forward I operate under the idea that there is no such thing as flirting.

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Anonymous 10w

i always assume theyre just being nice until given a reason not to

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Anonymous 10w

Being kind, in my experience women never flirt first even if they come up to you

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Anonymous 10w

I would assume she flirting because why is she trying to get to know me off the bat yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

because that’s how you make friends…😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Okay but i’ve never had a girl approach me just trying to be friends lmao just speaking from experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

that’s weird. We are in college. It’s not like my entire friend group is girls. I’m mostly friends with guys because of my major, but i have never gotten anything more than friend vibes and I would NEVER dare most of them even though I approach them all the same way.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

And most is 99.999 % of them

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