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My bf does not like to put the toilet seat up to pee. He just gets it on the seat and leaves it there for me to find and clean. I told him repeatedly that I don’t want to clean his pee. Am I being a nag? Why can’t he just lift the seat? I don’t understand
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Anonymous 4w

He can leave the seat down if he wants to but leaving you to clean up his bodily fluids is very fucked up. You’re not his nanny or his mommy to clean up after he has a little accident, and the fact that you’ve told him you don’t wanna do this and he clearly doesn’t care shows me that he does not respect your feelings

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Anonymous 4w

He’s lazy

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Anonymous 4w

Another instance of “how the hell is this guy dating and I can’t”

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Anonymous 4w

I also don’t lift the seat, but I have good aim and wipe up any dribbles

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Anonymous 4w

I wouldn’t date that guy

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Anonymous 4w

he does not respect you

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Anonymous 4w

Yeah if you telling him repeatedly and he REFUSES to change, talking more than 3 times, it’s unlikely to change and will probably get worse as yall stay together longer. If you like him that much, telling him with more emphasis and see if he improves or snaps back first. If the latter, DIP ASAP.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I feel like if he had to sit on the seat and realized he sat in his own pee, he’d want to clean it. Problem is, I seem to always get to it first. If I had another bathroom, I wouldn’t say anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

One word: Hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

And then you notice that he’s not even hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I hate thinking like this but I can’t help myself when I scroll through here…

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 4w

*keep telling him with ABSURD amounts of emphasis…

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